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Being guarded dating

She thinks I just wanted to use her for sex and showoff to my friends when that couldn't be further from the truth.

We’re afraid that the good feelings won’t last and we’re scared that we can be hurt.

Here comes the problem: She then asks me if I told anyone about it....

(me and her are extremely honest with each other) and so I tell her our mutual friend XYZ asked me and I told him... She began saying how could I break her trust like that, she begins tearing up, saying she should have known better, she can't even look at me.

You may have walls up because you don’t want to be judged or rejected but you just can’t live running from pain.

The only way to date successfully is to pursue pleasure, pure pleasure and only date the people you think can give that to you.

Dating can be scary and love; terrifying yet we’re all going to do it at some point.

Instead of avoiding what scares you do more of what delights you.

She essentially said she's empty and has her guard up.