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This kind of approach may boost their ego and self-confidence, but it only works for so long before it just becomes a crutch.

That’s because the Convincer is the one who makes sure you spend time together and who pursues the Resistor.

If you are the one doing the convincing, you do not create the space to see if HE will step forward and pursue YOU. Your “resistance” will also inspire him to want to pursue you, rather than resist progress in your relationship.

Once they repeat this pattern and gain the same results, before too long, serial monogamy becomes a habit.

[Read: When nothing makes you happy, make happiness your default state] But often they don’t realize the reason most of these relationships never seem to work out is because they have no breathing space between each partner.

[Read: Learn how to be single after a long relationship] #2 You crave affection.

You’re not the type to roll over after sex and just go to sleep.

10 ways to find out if you have a relationship addiction Simply gaining your sense of self-worth from someone else’s love and affection alone can be pretty damaging to your ability to truly connect to another human.

Relationship addicts need to learn to love themselves first, instead of looking for self-love in other people.

So let’s see how we feel about things over the next few weeks or months (set a time here you feel comfortable with), and we’ll decide if there’s something more serious that we both want.”When you say this to a guy, there’s an unconscious button that’s pushed in his mind that tells him that you are a respectable and desirable woman who has the ability and the strength to pick and choose what happens in your life, and he better rise to the occasion.

By focusing on having fun and getting to know him during the first two stages, you’ve taken the pressure off of him, and he can naturally relax into the relationship.

He sees you as a woman who doesn’t simply have an agenda to be in a committed relationship, but rather as a woman who genuinely wants to be in a relationship with him.