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Quitting dating

The truth is, I really dislike online dating and don’t believe it works. When you know there’s a lot more where that came from, you’re likely to take it for granted. When we behave this way, we treat people as interchangeable widgets. There is no way to convey in a profile what one’s chemistry is, or whether two people will be attracted to one another, no matter what percentage an algorithm assigns to their compatibility.

But some partners may not be supportive, or may try to control the smokefree process.

We were incurious about one another, and there was nothing we could do about it.

Entering the cafe hopefully, wearing something relatively cute, putting on a bright face, cultivating positivity, scanning the room expectantly, and then… My last date looked a little like Danny De Vito but more cartoonish and a lot less fun. If I met a man like that, and he made me laugh, and he was warm, and we connected, of course I’d fall for him.

This can lower a woman’s confidence and make it harder for her to quit.