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Because I've been an observer but not sexually active online for the past few years, I called up Kirk (not his real name), an administrator in an adults-only webcam community.

A man who not only respects that but enjoys it is a man who will not lack for online sexual partners.

And if you're not willing to make the investment, go to a cam-girl site and pay to play instead.

It kills the mood if you toss too many endearments around in public, and mood is very important in adult chat.

In fact, mood is as contagious online as it is offline."There's a momentum that happens," he says.

"You'll see a lot of cams up, lots of women playing, a little free-for-all.

And then you go through a lull when someone leaves, or the woman who is the focus of the most attention will leave, and everyone else starts to cam off and leave too."Kirk can't believe how many men – still – expect instant gratification.

And what television news program wants to report on normal people having a great time visiting and flirting and possibly sharing orgasms – normal people who then log off and go about the rest of their normal lives?